The Chapman Family  

Front row: Zion Hope, Rebekah Faith, Hadassah Joy, our grandson Caleb Matthew, and granddaughter Living Hope ("Livi")

 Middle row (the guys): Ezra Amishav, Benjamin, Matthew, our son-in-law Nathan Mickler

Back row: Kindle Adriel, Maranatha, our daughter Lauren Mickler

(picture taken: Spring 2011) 

 

If you are anything like us, we enjoy knowing a little bit about the lives of the people whose articles or books we read or whose teaching we listen to. Because neither Maranatha or I are bloggers, we want to have a place to give you a small window into our lives and put faces to what you read about and who we are.

We are a family who loves the Lord Jesus and we want Him reigning and bearing fruit in every aspect of our lives. He is our aim, our focus, and our whole life, and we daily live to be poured out and to teach our children the same thing. You will notice that in almost everything we write, speak, or sing, we make a huge deal about being wholehearted for the Lord and His kingdom and never settling for anything that is shallow, hollow, merely outward, and lifeless.

As far as Kindling Publications goes, it is simply our way of getting out and passing along what the Lord has given us. It is definitely not a profitable business or anything that supports us. I work full time with my son in the window cleaning business he started. We don't aspire to be "a ministry family" and we don't have any agenda for how we think the Lord should use us. We are just simple people who want to be emptied of ourselves and available for the Spirit of God to flow through in whatever ways He desires. Neither one of us come from perfect families but we have asked the Lord to be strong in our our weaknesses and overflow who He is through our lacks so that others might be edified, encouraged, and equipped.

Maranatha and I have been married for 23 years as of July of 2011, and have seven precious children and two delightful grandchildren. We homeschool all of our children all the way through, and have graduated two so far. We are blessed to live in beautiful East Texas on 9 acres on the outskirts of Tyler. As a family, we love to garden, work outside, cook big meals, sing, or do really any activity that has us together and keeps us close. We all enjoy sharing hearts, whether through deep conversation or delivering love to one another through "the simple things in life." And not a one of us ever tires of a good discussion as we "rise up, sit down, and walk (or drive) along the way."

Maranatha and I are best friends and truly grow deeper in love every day. We feel like our marriage just gets sweeter and sweeter every year. From the very beginning of our life together, we purposed to always live "connected" and never let anything separate us, and I can honestly say after this many years of marriage that we live just that -- completely heart-connected.

Maranatha is the one in our marriage that is full of energy and ideas. She definitely goes through life full-hearted for the Lord in whatever she does, and I love how she ends each day with a joyful peace and confidence that she "left it all on the field" (i.e., gave her all) for that day. She is the kind of person who loves very deeply and would stay up all night to help someone (and has many times). She doesn't just holler down to someone who fell into a deep hole, so to speak, but rather one who crawls down in there to help them get out and would give her life to see them restored and made whole. If you are with her for five minutes, you feel loved. Yet for all of her compassion, she is also one of the most uncompromising people I know and is tenacious about the truth. She is constantly creating, working on projects, and doing something active with our children. She is always full of laughter, singing, and fun. She homeschools our children and runs our home like a well-oiled machine, but is not uptight about it, and is fully devoted to being a "keeper at home." Yet she's also the kind of mama that will do things like play in the mud with the little ones, write songs, and encourage the kids try or make up new recipes (and make a mess in the kitchen in the process, which used to alarm me, but to which she'd say, "Oh, we'll have it cleaned up in no time," and they always have).

Now, by contrast, I am most definitely not the creative, "thousand new ideas a day" kind of person, and I am not the one in our home who is doing tricks on the floor with the kids, though I love my family deeply and savor every moment with them. I think very linear and am the detail guy who can take those creative ideas and bring them into being and make them work. That makes Maranatha and I a great combination and complement to one another -- she's got the creative juices and I identify what's doable and what's not; she keeps things fresh and lively and I keep our feet on the ground. I love to tell stories and have to really work at stating only the facts and giving it "in a nut shell," usually preferring "the scenic route" instead. I really enjoy engaging conversations, and I can teach, share, and preach for hours, but I am clearly not an extrovert. A few in the family are like me, who couldn't be messy or put something out of order if their life depended on it. I am meticulous, orderly, and prefer a routine, yet I am also very adventurous (I was a pro bull rider in my younger days -- that should tell you a lot!) and love to explore and go on spontaneous outings and family vacations. I like to find what works and stick with it, and I don't necessarily need or want change for change's sake -- but I love and welcome change when it's the Lord taking us forward. Though I'm not a vivid personality like my sweetie, I am every bit as wholehearted and am known for my intensity and passion, yet, to the surprise of many, I have an equally big silly side and I love to laugh and tease. The Lord is my everything and He is the reason I live and am passionate about His kingdom and purposes. I've unashamedly given up and risked everything I know to follow Him and it burns in me to lead my family and God's people in that same way.

We dearly love all the saints we walk with, who make up the church that gathers in our home, and are so blessed to see the Lord work in/through/and among us. It is simply amazing to see the mighty hand of our God work in the lives of His people, not just in meetings, but in daily life and all the ways our lives are intertwined and shared throughout the week. It just excites our hearts to see Him breaking chains, mending hearts, knitting us together, and making us more and more into "a dwelling of God in the Spirit." We are so looking forward to all that He wants to do in the coming years. Many ask how long we've been a part of home churches, and that would be for more than 26 years now.

As far as our children are concerned, it is an absolute joy to get to be their parents. Getting to daily disciple, train, shepherd hearts, educate, and bring them forth as men and women of God is a complete honor. Before we ever had children, we purposed to raise them in a way that they would be full of His love and His life. We enjoy how each one is unique and that God has different callings and purposes for their lives.

Here's a little bit about them....

  • Like most first-borns, Benjamin is an incredible leader and a real "go-getter." He is full of ideas and is quite the entrepreneur. But more than anything he has such a pure devotion to the Lord and truly wants to honor Him in everything he does. He has a heart for worship and a burden to help anyone who is lost or hurting. He is thoughtful, tender, and extremely loving, and is an incredible blessing to our entire family. He loves depth and thoroughly enjoys having heart-to-heart talks. Every single one of the kids in the family loves getting special time with their sweet, big brother and he makes each one feel so special. As I mentioned earlier, we work together every day, and he is a joy to be with.
  • Lauren and her precious husband, Nathan Mickler have been married just over three years now. They have an adorable 2-year-old son, Caleb Matthew, and a sweet little baby daughter, Living Hope, who we call "Livi," who was born this past March. Nathan is one of the most faithful, giving, loving, and honest men we have ever known, and we are so blessed that he is our son-in-law and the father of our grandchildren -- we could not have asked for better. Everyone always told us how much we'd enjoy being grandparents but we had no idea just how much we would love it. Caleb delights us to no end and is such a sweet, cute, and smart little guy (well, I'll spare you the grandparent brag session!). Now that Livi is here, we can't imagine life without her. Her sweetness has already stolen our hearts and we love having a granddaughter! Lauren has also got to be one of the the sweetest mamas we've ever seen. It's so fun watching her be a wife and mother. She is hard-working and very devoted to the needs of her family and home. She has such a heart for God's people and eternal purpose, and many of the songs she writes comes out of the time she spends interceding. She's always been our "little butterfly" and is so precious to have around. She has never been one of the outgoing ones, but her heart and smile truly light up a room. Feel free to check out her blog, Wearing His Purity -- you'll be blessed and encouraged!
  • Kindle could be described in two words - Simply Delightful. She has such a sweet heart for Jesus and will periodically chime in with her "pearls of wisdom" as I like to call them, which usually cut straight to the heart of a matter.  She loves being at home probably more than any of our children and, in addition to being an excellent student, is very good at managing and getting a lot done with such a servant's heart. More than a year ago, she had a severe concussion and it took over six months months for her to fully recover from the injury and all the ways it affected her mind and ability to concentrate and do schoolwork and even to function much around the house. In coming out of it, the Lord grew such precious capacities in her and, through it all, she has truly found that He is our strength and our help. All of her mental sharpness and ability to function were fully restored and then some! She is full of energy and has become our little health nut who is constantly learning more on nutrition and fitness and inspiring all of us, and blessing us with her wonderful cooking.
  • Ezra is his daddy made over. He is methodical, orderly, and enjoys play, but he really gets excited about constructing, gardening, organizing, cleaning, and being generally productive. He is hardworking, aggressive, and strong and yet one of our most loving and compassionate children. He has such a tender place in his heart for the elderly, needy, homeless, and lost. We so look forward to seeing how the Lord is going to use him.
  • "Our Zion," as I have nicknamed her, has a love and passion for life that is infectious. She smiles from ear to ear and is definitely a people person. She is very wholehearted and is easily moved to cry, laugh, or rejoice with others. She is also our little song bird and our home is often filled with beautiful songs as she and Rebekah harmonize and sing as they work and play together.
  • Rebekah is such a sweetie and melts all of our hearts with her big heart and her big, chocolate-brown eyes. She has a love for the truth and a lot of integrity even at such a young age. She's pretty no-nonsense, down-to-earth, and not picky at all. She loves being outside, cooking with one of her big sisters, or getting in on whatever is going on. She's one of those people that is so easy to get along with and very fun to have around in any activity.
  • Hadassah Joy is just like her middle name- pure joy! Around the time she was born we were going through some very difficult times and dealing with great loss in our lives. But the Lord in his kindness brought us this delightful daughter and actually used her gentle and loving personality to bring so much comfort and joy to our home. She is very precocious and has quite a sense of humor, often having the whole family in stitches. She loves serving and doing special little things to bless her big brothers and sisters. She brightens up all of our lives! And she is the best little Aunt who loves to play with her little nephew, Caleb, and niece, Livi.

I hope you feel like you've gotten to know us a little. May the Lord bless you and your family!

Matthew Chapman
(Summer, 2011)


Ezra and Kindle

Hadassah with her Mama

Our new grandaughter, Living Hope

Rebekah loves her big brother

Uncle Ezra with Caleb

The sweet little Micklers

Living Hope and Lauren

Two peas in a pod!

Benjamin and Lauren enjoying each other

Sweet Zion and Rebekah

Hadassah

Rebekah, a.k.a. "Itchy Beth"

Our precious daughters

Absolutely in love!

Girls love their Daddy!